Serving Southern California

San Diego County, Imperial County, and Riverside County

Paul Ryan Represents Clients in San Diego, Riverside, and Imperial Counties

The San Diego divorce attorneys at Ryan Family Law have combined decades of experience in divorce, military divorce, child custody & visitation, spousal support (alimony), property division and other family law issues.

Contested vs. Uncontested Divorces

Contested vs. Uncontested Divorces


When a San Diego couple divorces, there are many matters that must be agreed to. Read More
Spousal Support in San Diego

Spousal Support in San Diego


We make sure our clients know what they can expect to receive or pay for spousal support. Read More
Child Custody and Visitation in San Diego

Child Custody and Visitation in San Diego


Final child custody orders will spell out the terms of all future contact, to include visitation, with your children. Read More
Child Support in San Diego

Child Support in San Diego


Once you and your spouse agree to a viable child custody agreement, child support payments are then to be calculated. Read More
Establishing Paternity in San Diego

Establishing Paternity in San Diego


It is a myth that only fathers can file a petition to establish paternity. Read More
Filing for Divorce in San Diego

Filing for Divorce in San Diego


It is essential that you hire an experienced San Diego famil law attorney who focuses solely on divorce and family law cases in San Diego. Read More

Founding attorney Marine Corps Lt Col (ret.) Paul J. Ryan uses his extensive knowledge of family law to help clients resolve every issue related to their divorce or other family law dispute. In addition to his general family practice, he also assists clients with their high-asset divorce and property division cases.

San Diego divorce attorney Paul J. Ryan is a retired U.S. Marine Corps Lieutenant Colonel who has nearly three decades of legal experience. While in the Marines, he worked as the officer in charge at the Legal Assistance Office at the Marine Corps Air Station in Miramar. Mr. Ryan’s firsthand experience and skill set allow him to find solutions to his military family law clients’ problems.

Southern CA Military Divorce

Paul helps military families with many family law issues, including:

  • Divorce filings for active- and off-duty service members and their spouses
  • Military child custody and visitation
  • Move-away and relocation
  • Military child support payments
  • Domestic violence and spousal abuse allegations
Marine and wife - San Diego Divorce Attorneys

Experienced San Diego Divorce Lawyers

Seeing a divorce through, from beginning to end in San Diego — from filing, to settlement agreement, or a litigated judgment of dissolution — can be confusing and complicated. If your divorce is contentious, it can become expensive. Having an experienced divorce attorney on your side, whether contested or uncontested, can lessen the costs. An experienced San Diego divorce attorney can be by your side to help protect your legal rights as you proceed through each step of the legal process. Paul Ryan and his team of San Diego divorce lawyers at Ryan Family Law have decades of experience negotiating those quarrelsome and emotional issues such as child custody and spousal support (alimony). We are sensitive to and committed to helping our clients through the complex process of filing for divorce and related family law matters that often arise during the divorce process. We will aggressively advocate for you while striving to obtain the best possible outcome in your final divorce decree. That outcome should represent an equitable division of marital property (to include complex asset division), a workable and acceptable child custody and visitation arrangement, child support order — if minor children are involved — and a spousal support order, where you can sustain or get close to your current standard of living given that one family is about to become two separate households thereon.

At Ryan Family Law with three convenient office locations in the San Diego area, we are focused on helping you and your spouse reach a divorce settlement agreement outside of the courtroom, if at all possible. If there are some contentious stumbling points involving child custody, visitation or property division, we can still avoid more costly — and public — courtroom litigation by taking advantage of alternative dispute resolution channels including negotiation and mediation. That said, should those options fail to obtain the result you want to fight for, we will competently and aggressively represent you in your family law court case. Our San Diego attorneys will often bring in forensic accountants if your spouse is hiding assets or income sources as well as other expert witnesses when needed to build the strongest possible case that will result in you obtaining a satisfactory result for your divorce case. Moreover, Ryan Family Law invests in the most advanced public records searching software in order to ensure we find all of the opposing party’s assets – known and hidden. Likewise, at Ryan Family Law, our experienced San Diego family law attorneys will be at your side every step of the way.

Woman placing wedding ring on glass tabletop - San Diego Family Law Attorneys

Divorce is also known as a ‘dissolution of marriage.’ Divorce in San Diego California is the process of legally terminating a marriage. It is interesting to know that California was the first state to implement the “no-fault divorce” concept. This means neither spouse has to accuse the other of marital misconduct. Divorcing spouses may simply cite “irreconcilable differences” when filing for divorce.

Ending a marriage can be chaotic and emotionally draining. Unfortunately, some San Diego spouses elect to file for divorce on their own, trying to save some money, but come to realize that the process is not as simple as they initially thought. If there are children, a marital home, and other assets, it is a wise choice to hire a family law attorney – who ONLY practices family law – to handle the numerous aspects of your divorce. If you expect your spouse will disagree with what you want or your desired outcome, you absolutely should hire the most skilled San Diego divorce lawyer you can afford. Hiring an experienced San Diego divorce often results in our clients recouping/offsetting their legal fees in a more favorable divorce settlement agreement than they might have on their own. Many couples seeking a San Diego divorce think the process will go smoothly only to find that their spouse contests many issues and the parties cannot seem to come to an agreement in multiple areas. To terminate your marriage legally, and hopefully, via a settlement between the parties, you are required to come to a workable and viable agreement on all matters that comprise a legal, and binding, divorce settlement agreement.

Strategic Divorce & Family Law Advocacy in Contra Costa County

Ryan Family Law has been serving Contra Costa County for years, providing the same trusted legal advocacy that has made us a go-to family law firm in Southern California. As we continue to focus more on this region, our commitment remains unwavering—to deliver skilled representation in divorce, child custody, and complex asset division cases to individuals and families in Walnut Creek, Concord, Pleasant Hill, Danville, San Ramon and other Contra Costa communities.

Our Contra Costa office offers comprehensive family law services, from amicable settlements to high-conflict litigation. Whether you’re navigating a divorce, seeking fair spousal support, or protecting your parental rights, our team, led by Paul Ryan, is here to guide you through every step with expertise, strategy, and unwavering advocacy.

Federal Employee Divorce Solutions

Federal civil service jobs are everywhere—San Diego and Contra Costa Counties are packed with them. Ever consider how a divorce splits benefits for:

  • A Postal Service worker? 
  • An Amtrak conductor? 
  • A Veterans Affairs nurse?

Paul Ryan does. With nearly three decades of legal know-how, including time as a JAG officer, he’s the attorney you need to divide complex federal retirement packages fairly.

Don’t trust your future to someone who doesn’t get it—Paul does.

Most Read Pages

Take Off Those Rose Colored Glasses

5 Tips to Protect Assets Before Marriage

Protect Assets Before Marriage You can protect assets such as a money, your car or home before you marry. Your assets — your separate property — can remain your separate legal assets unless you “commingle” with the separate property your new spouse. Take Off Those Rose Colored Glasses – Protect Your Assets If there was […]

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7 Tips To Protect Your Assets When Divorce Is Imminent

7 Tips To Protect Your Assets When Divorce Is Imminent

7 Tips To Protect Your Assets When Divorce Is Imminent When it seems divorce is around the corner, action must be taken before the Summons is served. On the back of the Summons there are Restraining Orders with several prohibitions, including not changing insurance policy beneficiaries, disposing of any property whether separate or community, transferring […]

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7 Tips to Protect Your Separate Assets After Marriage

7 Tips to Protect Your Separate Assets After Marriage

7 Tips to Protect Your Separate Assets After Marriage Separate Assets – If the assets were not protected prior to the marriage all is not lost. A Post-nuptial Agreement can define separate property earnings and assets as well as marital earnings and assets. Earnings and assets acquired prior to marriage and an inheritance are separate […]

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How a San Diego Divorce Lawyer Can Help

People get married expecting to share a home and grow old together. Unfortunately, some experts estimate that nearly 50 percent of all marriages in the United States will end in divorce or separation. The divorce rate for subsequent marriages is even higher. Many couples have children or adopt children. Many will buy a home and numerous other assets along their journey. Choosing to end a marriage through divorce is a serious decision that follows much thought and contemplation. Once the decision is made to go separate ways, more decisions necessarily follow including the division of marital property (and debt), child custody, visitation rights and spousal support.

At Ryan Family Law, we dedicate ourselves to client care and unparalleled satisfaction. Our firm represents people who are facing divorce and related family law disputes in San Diego County adjacent counties. Paul Ryan, our founding attorney, has over two decades of California family law experience and many legal organizations have recognized him for his contributions to family law. As your legal representative, he will put your needs first and create a personalized case strategy that allows you to get the best possible outcome for your family law case.

Hiring an Experienced Lawyer is Invaluable

Our San Diego family law attorneys have an ‘in the trenches’ understanding of San Diego divorce law and how we can best navigate your case through the courts. We look to minimize and eliminate issues that might bog down your case in court. We will do everything in our power to help you choose the best course of action for your specific situation. That might be to compromise on some negotiations while digging in and fighting for those goals you decide are the most important on which to prevail. When necessary, we will consult with other professionals, such as therapists and forensic accountants. Many times, a court appoints a child custody evaluator to determine what custody or visitation order is in the best interest of the child. Moreover, there is no shortage of situations where one spouse is hiding money or income. Further, outside professionals can be brought in to evaluate a professional practice or small business in order to ensure your interests are protected.

Some law firms in San Diego see divorce cases as their personal ATM machines – particularly so with high asset divorces where there are significant property and assets. The attorneys at Ryan Family Law are known for affordable, compassionate and competent legal representation. Likewise, the firm’s founder, Paul Ryan finalizes all bills and routinely gives discounts of five to fifteen percent on outstanding invoices that are paid promptly. Accordingly, our goal is to obtain a favorable outcome for our clients, and their loved ones, and efficiently guiding you through the process to ensure the best use of your resources. By presenting our clients with all practical and legal options, your divorce will be less stressful.

When you decide to file for divorce in San Diego, find out what San Diego divorce attorney Paul J. Ryan and his team can do for you.

Recent Resources

Understanding Family Law; A Guide to Navigating the Legal System

Understanding Family Law; A Guide to Navigating the Legal System

Navigating the legal system can be a daunting task, especially when it comes to family law. Whether you’re facing a divorce, child custody battle, or other family-related legal issue, it’s important to have a clear understanding of the laws that govern your situation. This comprehensive guide will help you better understand family law, so you […]

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Community property concerns and your California divorce

Community property concerns and your California divorce

Since California is a community property state, you and your spouse must divide your marital property and debt equally. Many divorcing couples dread the property division process but understanding the community property aspect and preparing in advance can lower the stress level. How community property division works Any assets and debts you and your spouse […]

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How do you change a custody order?

How do you change a custody order?

When you and your spouse divorce, the court issues an order for child custody and visitation. Family law decisions involving children always make their interests a primary consideration. However, as your children get older, their needs and interests may change. At the same time, your circumstances, or those of your ex-spouse, may alter as you […]

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How to File for a Military Divorce in California!

How to File for a Military Divorce in California!

The First Step to Taking Back Control –

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Unraveling the Mystery Behind Military Pension: What You Didn’t Know!

Unraveling the Mystery Behind Military Pension: What You Didn’t Know!

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Waive Military Retirement for Disability Benefits? Find Out Now!

Waive Military Retirement for Disability Benefits? Find Out Now!

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Schedule a Consultation with a San Diego Divorce Lawyer – 24/7/365

Divorce is never easy. A so-called ‘simple divorce’ will often become complex and contentious when parties cannot agree on various issues such as who will live in the marital home or if they will sell the home, how much spousal support and/or child support will be, child custody, and even custody of the family pets. The choices you and your spouse make during the divorce process will impact your life – and the lives of your loved ones, for years to come. Hiring a knowledgeable San Diego family attorney to be at your side for the entire process can be a tremendous asset to you and your divorce case. Hiring a skilled attorney almost always results in a more favorable and satisfactory outcome.

Arrange a no-cost consultation with Paul Ryan, the founder of Ryan Family Law, to discuss your legal options.

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